How to Select the Right Psychic


Are you looking for spiritual guidance in your life? Do you have burning questions about your future, your love life, or your financial stability? Are you curious about finding your twinflame or soulmate? Do you have questions about a big investment you want to make, or starting a new business? These questions and more can be answered with the help of a qualified psychic in a psychic reading.

Psychic readings can be useful for many people, but it is important to select the right psychic. Not every psychic is appropriate for every client. Finding the right psychic for you can be a lot like finding the right car. You can buy the first one you find in an ad, sight unseen, but you are as likely to get a lemon as you are to get a good vehicle.
The task of searching for the perfect psychic for you can be a daunting one. With all the choices available, it can be difficult to know which one will be the best for you, or even what to look for in your search. Getting the most out of a psychic reading takes time, preparation, and patience both before and during the session with a psychic. Whether it is in person, over the phone, through e-mail, or online chat, the same qualities of a good psychic apply in all situations.

At, there are over 3,000 psychics to choose from for a quality psychic reading. These psychics do e-mail readings, online chat readings, palm readings, and more. Some have specialties, such as love and relationships, home and family, mind and body, and dream interpretation. Others are more broad in their reading abilities and specialties. All of them are rated by their customers in order of their effectiveness, professionalism, and years of experience.

Just as we look at product reviews before we buy a new television or phone, so should we read the reviews of the psychics we might use before we engage with them. Not every psychic is right for every person, however, so one bad review should not be a deal-breaker for working with a psychic. Decide what is important to you specifically before you start to research a psychic. Are you looking for someone who is experienced in finances? A sexologist? A spiritual healer? A tarot expert?

After you select a number of psychics to choose from, make a list of questions that you would like to ask your potential psychics. Some questions you might want answers to are: What happens during a session? How long do sessions typically last? Are sessions taped or recorded in some way? What kind of information does the psychic require from you? What kind of information does the psychic normally get from a reading? You might also ask about how the psychic handles follow-up questions, negative information, and confidential data to be sure that this is the psychic for you.

Research is the key to getting the best psychic for your psychic reading. Make sure that the psychic you select is hopeful, uplifting, and wants to help all their clients to solve their problems and live their best lives. Psychic readings are work for the psychics, but they should not be tedious for either party.

An overworked or distracted psychic can lead to a bad reading. If your psychic is not cleansing his- or herself properly before and after readings, you could find your psychic inundated with negative vibes that can impact your reading. It is helpful to ask your potential psychic up front about how often and when they cleanse themselves spiritually. Do they cleanse before readings? After? Both? Or neither?

Selecting the right psychic is a process that should not be taken lightly. Potential clients must focus not only on the psychic, but on the ability you have to connect with that psychic on a very deep level. Without a connection, a psychic reading will be shallow at the best, and terribly wrong at the worst. It is important that you and your psychic develop a rapport quickly.

It is absolutely necessary that you feel comfortable with your psychic, and can develop a trusting relationship, prior to the first psychic reading. Trust allows the psychic to receive the most information from your spirit guides or through the other methods the psychic uses during a reading. Without proper trust, your reading could be stunted, and your results could be unsatisfactory.

Trust your instincts. If the psychic you are researching does not seem like a good fit for you, then you should probably pass on having a reading by them. Never let a psychic con, guilt, or scare you into a reading. If the psychic tries to trick you into a reading with an ominous statement about something they see in your aura or a vibe they get from you, run – don’t walk – away from that person.

Similarly, a psychic should never tell you that you are cursed, or that only they can relieve you of your problems. In these cases, hefty donations are usually prescribed by these immoral psychic vampires in order to help “cure” your supposed ailments. This is another case in which you should get away immediately, and report the psychic to the website or organization to which they have membership.

Real psychics are helpful, kind, compassionate people who want the best for their clients. They ask questions to find out more about the things you want to know, not necessarily about you, in order to help you. Honest, thoughtful communication is an important component to any psychic reading, and helps build the kind of trust you need to be bolstered on your life’s journey.

Sometimes a psychic will find that he or she must be blunt to get a point across. To many of us, this bluntness can seem callous or cruel, but a good psychic will keep your feelings in mind, and help you adjust to this new, painful information with a level of decorum and tenderness.

Good communication is necessary to make sure the client gets all the information he or she needs to make informed decisions and take control of his or her own destiny. Sugar-coating details is not necessary, and often is detrimental to a client, though revealing harmful, negative information might not always be the best choice. Good psychics use their informed judgment in deciding what to tell a client and how to express it.

Any psychic who will answer your questions and allay your fears is more trustworthy than someone who tries to dodge or change the subject. Your instincts are usually right, so it is critical to listen the voice of your subconscious mind. If something seems to not be making sense or adding up, perhaps you or the psychic is having an “off” day. Ask the psychic to reschedule the session until you are both in a better mental and emotional place to have a more productive reading.

A good psychic will not barrage a client with question after question. Instead, the right psychic for you will have you concentrate on your own questions, and only ask questions to clarify things they are getting from their extra-sensory perceptions.

The best psychics are practiced in the skill of empathy. Empathy is the capacity a person has to feel what another person is feeling from the other person’s point of view, and is one of the many hallmark abilities of a real psychic or medium. They should be able to feel the vibrations you are sending out, and help you pinpoint the best path for you to take.

This extraordinary empathy is cultivated through the normal human emotional skill combined with the extra-sensory sources of the psychic to receive information about people or situations involved in a client’s questions or life. This special kind of empathy is more than what most of us experience. It is a rare blessing that allows them to understand things that some of us will never be privy to, and may not be able to handle if we were.

But it is not only the presence and practice of this innate ability that makes a good psychic. As with any talent or skill, practice makes perfect, and being a medium is no different to other professions. These special people need to do their research, learn about new paths, and practice their skills in order to hone them to a fine, razor edge. Without practice and learning new things, even psychics can get stale, and their abilities can falter and slip. The spiritual education of a good psychic is always a work in progress.

With this special spiritual education, a good psychic is always prepared to help clients with problems that they may have never encountered before. No psychic reading is the same, just as no client and no psychic are the same. But it is imperative that each client leave a psychic reading with a new clarity and understanding of the path he or she is on.


About Author

Dana Copeland

A creative personality with solid writing skills and a penchant for technology, I consider myself more than a jack-of-all-trades. My fiction has been published by journals, magazines, and within electronic and print anthologies. I have published two speculative fiction anthologies and a suspense novel, and plan to continue the novel through a trilogy or further.