While you might not realize it, your life is about to change – and not in the ways it has been changing lately. You’re ready for something slower, something that makes you feel like you’re like everyone else. To be honest, you’ve been looking forward to things being boring again. When things are boring, you can control them more easily. And while things are never going to be easy, you’d like a little bit of a break – and 2014 looks like the year for it.
Your career has been the last thing on your mind in the past year. With all of the turmoil and upheaval, it would be nice to get back to work and to start enjoying some sort of normalcy. If you’ve been having troubles figuring out what to do now that your life is settling down, reach out to those around you. Ask what they think you should do now – they have been waiting to give you a push in 2014.
If you look around enough, you’ll begin to see signs, signs you haven’t noticed before now. You’ve been occupied with other things, and this has caused you to overlook the signs from the universe. No matter what you might believe in, something has been trying to tap you on the shoulder and point you in the right direction. Start listening and you’ll be able to see things more clearly.
Work doesn’t have to be what you expect it to be, and it may be that you just need to shift what you are doing right now. Sometimes, the slightest shift can yield the greatest changes. In fact, you might just surprise yourself when you do finally make the move from where you are to where you were always meant to be in life.
You are completely blessed with the people who are around you. Even though you may not have been the best possible friend in the world, they understand. They know that your life has been a nightmare, and they want to see you happy again. Spend time with those you love, and start to laugh again when you can. You’re being watched. You’re being held, even by those who aren’t around you all the time anymore.
This might also be a year where you begin to define what you want from others, outside of the crises you may have encountered. While you might know what to ask for when you need help, it’s something entirely different when you need to ask for something that you just, well, need. Think about what you need to feel supported in your relationships, and be willing to ask for it, even if you’re concerned the other person is going to say no.
In the middle of all of the chaos and upset of the past few years, your health has been better than you may have expected. That doesn’t mean you can take it for granted, however. Instead, you should think about how you could continue to improve your wellness, whether this means you spend more time exercising or you just add more fruits and vegetables to your diet. In any case, the goal for you should be to focus on how you can take action now, and change the way you feel.
With all of the stress of the past few years, it’s not a bad idea either to focus on what you can do to repair your body during this time of repose. Whether this means you need to take some time for yourself, or you just need to spend time on a massage table – it doesn’t really matter. What does matter is that you realize you are worth some extra time and some extra loving.
In 2014, Virgo, you have the chance to settle down and even relax. While you may not be willing to relax all the time, you have the chance to do so, and you have the ability to do so. Take this opportunity and breathe in the possibility that you don’t have to worry all the time.