While it seems like all of the signs have gone through tremendous changes in the past year, Scorpio has had some difficult things to overcome. You’re on the brighter side of the tunnel, to be certain, but that doesn’t mean you’re all that comfortable with what you’ve become. The changes you’ve made and that have been made for you have not always been easy or welcomed. But this is the year when you need to start accepting where your life is.
In 2014, you need to actively begin to accept where you are at, even if you don’t like it. From this place, you will be able to create the plans that need to be made in order to change what you don’t like. Or you might find out that you like more than you think you do.
You’ve been taking on new roles and new titles in the past few years, and it hasn’t been easy. While others might be patting you on the back, you’ve been feeling the pressure of the work, and you’re sure you can shoulder that responsibility. Trust that in 2014, you’ll learn more about what you need to do to stay balanced. And the mantle of responsibility will become easier to wear.
Work isn’t just a place where you have taken on a role, but others have placed roles on you, based on your training or on your experience. Though you might be able to handle the responsibilities you’ve been given, if you feel that someone is expecting too much from you, it’s time to speak up. You need to be clear about what you can handle, and what you need to learn in order to be able to take on a new role.
It’s not surprising that your relationships have been affected by the way that your work has impacted your life. People in your life haven’t always known how to be close to you, and you haven’t always wanted them to be close to you. To help resolve these imbalances, it might help to set aside time for your relationships. Set aside time so you can make sure things get discussed – even if it means losing sleep or pushing another responsibility to the side.
The thing is that you’re a person who takes relationships very seriously. You love and you love deeply, and while you might not always show it, you can feel it. This allows you to be the person that feels hurt a lot of the time. You might feel as though others just aren’t in touch with where you are or how much you feel. If this seems like it’s the case for you, it might be time for you to speak up more about what you feel and what you need as a result.
In the past year, you’ve been thinking about what your body needs in order to feel healthy and strong. You may have taken some initial steps toward health, and decided that you weren’t ready. If you haven’t already made changes in your lifestyle in 2013, it’s time to start in 2014, Scorpio. You need to change your health habits so you can finally stay healthy.
This might mean you need to prioritize your time differently, and this may change some of your relationships. Though you might be worried about this being a problem, the others are actually quite pleased with the way that you are changing your life. When you are healthier, you will have more energy and more time for the people you love. And they will return the favor with spending more time with you and the healthy person you’ve become.
This year of acceptance doesn’t mean that you need to stop caring about everything, Scorpio, but it does mean that you need to be okay with who you are. Take care of the person you are right now and figure out the relationships you have right now. The more you can get settled with the way things already are, the more you can turn your attention to what happens next.