Who is responsible for your own happiness? By 3rdeyewisdom

Who is responsible for your own happiness?Ultimately we are responsible for the happiness that is around us, we have FREE WILL and through using our free will we can decide to live and lead a certain life. Through using our FREE WILL we choose to be around certain people (groups) and the people we socialize with every day from as little as going to the coffee shop or speaking to a friend on the phone affect, influence and eventually have crucial impact, even to the extent of deciding how happy we are.

Everyone has a sphere of energy around them, the energy of the people around them affect how you feel and act. For example when you are in a room full of laughing people you are likely to feel upbeat and positive even if you were feeling negative previously. This is because your negative energy is outweighed by all that positive energy to a certain degree, which is more than enough to change your mood.

Equally the same can be said for negative energy. If you are an upbeat person in a room full of sad and unhappy people you are likely to feel drained of energy. This is often why happy people complain about unhappy people and in turn, unhappy people wish they could be happy instead.

We can make other people responsible for our own happiness but through using our FREE WILL we may as well make conscious decisions as to who we choose to spend our time with. Although we have the responsibility to be happy we don’t have to rely entirely on our own resources to make ourselves happy. At times we do need to depend on the energy and happiness of others. Sometimes the need to be happy can’t be achieved without certain abilities or skills.

This often proves to be the point where the role of a psychic becomes of key importance in certain situations. A client who is unable to find insight alone may wish to know if their family’s life or their own love life is getting better with the help provided by the insight (the knowledge and the gift) of a psychic. A person can feel happier about the situation that they may be facing and be reminded that they are not alone in receiving the advice, insight and help from another. If you need to relax, on the other hand; meditation music can often be a great means of releasing tension. We can’t always provide self-help and that’s how depending on other people and not being left to our own devices can help achieve true happiness.

As we are human beings, it’s very important to be assured of the caring energy of our loved ones, even it means one person only; and the fact that we feel looked after. Quite often our peers can help make us feel happy through simple reassurance and a piece of good advice. At one point or another we do feel unhappy and often a rainy day can become a cheerfully sunny one simply owing to the support from a friend or a close family member.

Life can be very tough sometimes and it is always important even for someone who perhaps is not fond of the company of others all too often to feel that warm energy of being looked after and cared for. It’s just as important – whether you like keeping a big company around you or not – to know that there is always someone at the other end of the phone who is available for a small talk or to give you advice of any importance.

We have the choice to be around certain people and it is our responsibility to choose who we decide to associate with. By using our FREE WILL we can manifest happiness. It takes more than just smiling or positive thinking, as happiness needs to be created and we are responsible for our own happiness. People are either too busy thinking about their own lives or they simply only care about someone else other than themselves. Although people can assist in making us happy, they are not going to actually go the whole way, as this is our own duty at the end of the day. This is because happiness needs to be unlocked, and we may bear in mind to stay happy but most of us are not aware of the fact that this state even exists. We become aware of happiness through other people’s perception but this is quite often misleading. We tend to associate happiness with all the wrong things, for example having money. Why do people want money? Because they probably don’t have enough. By this desire and linking possessions directly to money you lead yourself into further unhappiness because you are reminding yourself of what you do not have right now and probably never will.

Here is a great quote: “the best things in life are free”. It is our job to understand this and that pure happiness doesn’t need to come with a price.

It is our responsibility to open up pure happiness and to realize that it does not come from worldly possessions but from spirituality. Spirituality is an independent choice we make, it is a way of life, purely and naturally. It helps us understand the true meaning of life and happiness, and by living a pure, spiritual and natural life we begin to understand and learn that our happiness does not come from treasures on earth but rather from a spiritual place, and the knowledge that the universe gives us, which we should use to manifest a happy life here on earth.

We all leave traces of our energy wherever we go and with whoever we speak with, our energy leaves a lasting effect on the people that your energy has been around. Being happy and boosting with positive energy is like a gift – a gift of happiness which is why being around friends and family who are happy is also the key to your own happiness too. It is the same with a friend to whom you can talk to no matter what, and suddenly you just seem to forget about life’s problems and worries. If you tend to rely on friendly advice and attention, remember: it is better to have few very close friends than many distant buddies whom you cannot really label as friends.

You might get your kicks out of helping someone else as well: the satisfaction of helping others provides the equally same positive feeling as being happy.

We can create our own happiness with the help of the universe. Although it may be hard to be happy all the time it is always important to make an effort. Being happy and having a positive attitude is often the foundation to success. If there is one thing that the universe wishes us all to do, it is to lead a happy and healthy life. I hope this week’s article has helped you find conclusion. Love and light. 

Written by 3rdeyewisdom, search more about the author here.

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