A difficult situation you thought you had avoided, Capricorn, is going to come to the forefront in this month. While you thought you’d fixed things or that you had gotten yourself out of the conversation, it’s likely that something complicates the issue. What you’ll need to do is to start by finding out what is happening before you respond. Sometimes, you might not have the whole story, so it’s essential you take the time to learn what is occurring.
When you can’t find out what is happening, stop and write out what has happened on a piece of paper. If you can do this, you can begin to see things from a new perspective, one that allows you to remain detached. Though you will want to engage in the process, taking the time to gain perspective will make all the difference in finding resolution.
If you begin to feel that others are manipulating you, start speaking up for yourself. You need to make sure others know how you feel and how you are affected by their actions. This is not going to be comfortable for you, but when you do take this step, you are more likely to reach a positive resolution.
Difficult times mean you also need to take space for yourself. If you can, try to get away from your normal life for a day so you can clear your head. Though you can’t stay away forever, getting some space will allow you to approach the situation with more kindness. You are someone who doesn’t always step back as much as you should, so take this month to learn how to do this more.
Sometimes, it’s not about being enmeshed in a situation. Sometimes, you just need to step away so that you can step into the situation with more effectiveness. If this is the case in your workplace, taking a sick day is not a bad thing. You’ll come back with a new attitude and a willingness to make things work better for everyone.